tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post8194428027659716576..comments2024-03-15T14:47:21.170-04:00Comments on Lemon Gloria: When the samba takes you out of nowhere; And the background's fading out of focus...Lemon Gloriahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-16365840875258143512014-11-12T23:07:29.968-05:002014-11-12T23:07:29.968-05:00I'm sorry. Sending you all the good thoughts I...I'm sorry. Sending you all the good thoughts I have.itslikelynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14407541319836712031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-75546931743495078342014-11-12T21:47:14.677-05:002014-11-12T21:47:14.677-05:00Hugs to you, zerodoll. Thank you.Hugs to you, zerodoll. Thank you.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-64087391009963789712014-11-12T14:43:37.163-05:002014-11-12T14:43:37.163-05:00I'm crying for you too. I was hoping for the ...I'm crying for you too. I was hoping for the 1% for you. Hugs to you.zerodollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06318400144023028952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-80652133004145291952014-11-12T11:06:19.522-05:002014-11-12T11:06:19.522-05:00Thank you, LJ. We will remedy that never meeting i...Thank you, LJ. We will remedy that never meeting in person one day. One day!Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-2244884608827978752014-11-12T11:05:54.151-05:002014-11-12T11:05:54.151-05:00Thank you for your very thoughtful and helpful com...Thank you for your very thoughtful and helpful comment, Molly. Like you said, it wasn't real - but it was very real to me, and from minute one, you start thinking about what might be. And it is isolating. At home I felt like I was going through this alone, even though Nick is kind and supportive, because it was never real for him, and he was unable to relate to how I was feeling. I so appreciate you sharing, and I'm sorry you've been here too. Big hugs to you.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-60492166190177629162014-11-12T11:01:59.383-05:002014-11-12T11:01:59.383-05:00Thank you, Carla. I think it is true that hope and...Thank you, Carla. I think it is true that hope and excitement are inevitable. And then something bad happens and so are tears. Hugs to you.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-17352217742219179442014-11-12T10:38:55.521-05:002014-11-12T10:38:55.521-05:00So very sorry, dear friend whom I have never met i...So very sorry, dear friend whom I have never met in person.LJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11863772247445220124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-12801657001848817492014-11-12T10:12:20.294-05:002014-11-12T10:12:20.294-05:00Loong time lurker here, like reading for 7 years a...Loong time lurker here, like reading for 7 years and never commenting long. I love your blog and how you make your stories so relateable. I am commenting now because I want you to know just how relateable this post is. Miscarriage can be a very isolating experience because those who have been through it don't talk about it and those who have not been through it cannot understand what you are going through. It does not matter if it was a planned pregnancy (mine was) or a surprise, as soon as you see that positive test you start to think about the future and the possibilities that include that tiny baby. For me it was important to feel like it was ok to cry and mourn the loss because even though it was not "something real" yet it was real to me. I want you to know that you are not alone in going through this and you have every right to feel sad about something ending even if you didn't even know you wanted it. So many hugs to you I know it is a tough time. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06312721555445675549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-38723874739049205842014-11-12T10:12:05.570-05:002014-11-12T10:12:05.570-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06312721555445675549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-77097673280342473262014-11-09T20:28:10.021-05:002014-11-09T20:28:10.021-05:00Hugs and hugs. I've been there and have many ...Hugs and hugs. I've been there and have many friends who have too. And heck, I have a friend who at 43 got knocked up with twins ("your bleeding episode may be a cyst, or menopause, let's do a quick ultrasound to check... Oh, twins! You're 4 months along!") and now they're two healthy 2 year olds, after a very uneventful first pregnancy, so to have hope makes sense, because, well, no every story ends in sad tears. All the possibilities... Of course you'll get excited. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Lots of hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-26917056028761969212014-11-08T18:18:42.899-05:002014-11-08T18:18:42.899-05:00Yes, he put it very well. Thank you for sharing th...Yes, he put it very well. Thank you for sharing this. It wasn't mine to begin with, but it was on its way to being mine...and now that possibility is gone forever.<br /><br />Big huge hugs to you, KB.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-39309746882166767442014-11-08T18:17:35.354-05:002014-11-08T18:17:35.354-05:00Thank you, Jaclyn. I have beautiful, incredible pe...Thank you, Jaclyn. I have beautiful, incredible people. I really do. I'm lucky.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-34916906851614650902014-11-08T18:17:09.473-05:002014-11-08T18:17:09.473-05:00Yes, true. It hurts. Love back to you, and thanks....Yes, true. It hurts. Love back to you, and thanks.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-61903349509721539602014-11-08T18:16:50.371-05:002014-11-08T18:16:50.371-05:00Thank you, Tia. BIIIG HUG to you and yours!Thank you, Tia. BIIIG HUG to you and yours!Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-10281153184779763072014-11-08T18:16:32.322-05:002014-11-08T18:16:32.322-05:00Thank you, Pauline. You are such a loving, sharing...Thank you, Pauline. You are such a loving, sharing soul.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-91736006178448362612014-11-08T18:16:11.596-05:002014-11-08T18:16:11.596-05:00I had to write. I always have to write. Giant hugs...I had to write. I always have to write. Giant hugs to you, Laura.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-62871168904308220402014-11-08T18:15:54.834-05:002014-11-08T18:15:54.834-05:00Thank you, Coleen. I will take the extra hard hug ...Thank you, Coleen. I will take the extra hard hug next time, with pleasure.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-70129090463173764672014-11-08T18:15:11.132-05:002014-11-08T18:15:11.132-05:00Lynn, you are a dear, kind, lovely person. Thank y...Lynn, you are a dear, kind, lovely person. Thank you for all the hugs and sorrys. Big hugs back to you.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-24764709606105508252014-11-08T18:14:45.174-05:002014-11-08T18:14:45.174-05:00I am so sorry. It's a terribly painful boat th...I am so sorry. It's a terribly painful boat this one.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-12273473180860057562014-11-08T18:14:22.702-05:002014-11-08T18:14:22.702-05:00Thank you, Jo. Big hugs to you.Thank you, Jo. Big hugs to you.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-57834689995757891022014-11-08T18:14:09.625-05:002014-11-08T18:14:09.625-05:00Thank you, Lexa.Thank you, Lexa.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-11549198413338187402014-11-08T18:13:59.770-05:002014-11-08T18:13:59.770-05:00I hadn't thought about it that way, but I am s...I hadn't thought about it that way, but I am sure that figures into it for sure. Big hugs and thanks, my friend.Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-81496786312313303292014-11-08T03:36:26.650-05:002014-11-08T03:36:26.650-05:00Oh, Lisa, I'm so terribly sorry. I read this ...Oh, Lisa, I'm so terribly sorry. I read this last night and a melancholy settled on me as I contemplated your pain and remembered my own. After the journey you undertook to conceive India, it seems nature can be so unfair, giving you a taste of a happiness you never knew you wanted and then cruelly ripping it away. Sometimes I wished I belived in God just so I could have someone to be mad at. <br /><br />My husband said it best when we lost the one we weren't yet trying for: "I feel like something has been stolen from me that wasn't mine to begin with." In time I came to see some blessing in our angel baby's brief life, but it is only time that heals (as you well know) and I'm not sure anything I could say about the experience could help you at the moment, so I'll pass on something said to me at the time that I did find comforting... I'm holding you in the light, my friend.Keenie Beaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07828633917521260061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-45736159596066713762014-11-07T23:31:35.160-05:002014-11-07T23:31:35.160-05:00I'm so sorry, and so glad that you have so man...I'm so sorry, and so glad that you have so many people who are there by your side when you need to cry like a banshee (since, really, who among us hasn't been there). Jaclynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06800071653449114953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2117136912052729666.post-74936850934146206672014-11-07T22:11:43.561-05:002014-11-07T22:11:43.561-05:00Because it hurts.
Sending love from a stranger in...Because it hurts.<br /><br />Sending love from a stranger in Canada.Fallenthropyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01266384975997779993noreply@blogger.com