Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Quiz: In order to maintain marital harmony, the best answer might be...

Say your husband runs into someone he hasn't seen in a long time.

And he comes home and says, "Hey, I ran into Miguel today. You know what he said? He said I'd put on weight! Can you believe it?"

The best response to this is:

(And please remember the marital harmony part.)

A. "He must be smoking crack." Accompanied by a look of surprise.
B. "What a weird thing to say to you!" Said with a sneer that conveys that you never liked the guy anyway.
C. "No fucking kidding." Said with hands on hips and a maybe-you-should-cut-out-the-cheeseburgers-and-beer look.

I'll give you a hint, based on personal experience. The answer is NOT C.

17 comments:

  1. Heeheehee.

    Me: Do you want a cranky thin wife or a happy fat wife?

    Hubby: No way am I touching that one.

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  2. I rather like: D. "Really? Hm. I didn't think guys were so ... blunt with each other about such things."

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  3. haha! I think I would have continued what I was doing and said "that's nice"

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  4. Anything other than C. Avoiding eye contact for at least two minutes after that, and no hint of a smirk would also help.

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  5. A very good male friend of mine was quietly growing a substantial gut. He asked me what I thought and I gently told him he should maybe cut back on the beer a bit. Didn't make any difference. Then one day he runs into one of his best friends from way back. He told him point blank-you're getting fat! It worked! I'm always towing the line as in hurting feelings/being blunt.

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  6. lacochran - Your husband is more astute than I.

    Also, as I recall, you're thin! Does this mean you're cranky?

    Dagny - That would be a very good response. Not commenting, just, hmm.

    Grace - Hahaha! "That's nice."

    Susan H - Yes, anything but C, it turns out.

    kayare - The odd thing is, this guy isn't a good friend. Which does make it kind of bizarre. But it did make him think.

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  7. Yeah, I can see how C would not go over well...."He must be looking through a volcanic haze!" is perhaps a response that would lead to marital harmony

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  8. So I take it that it's wrong to continuously give my boyfriend the "C" answer? Oh well.

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  9. I'm sure I would have done some version of B. Like "Gee, now I bet you remember why you haven't spoken to him for so long!"

    My theory regarding C is this. Everyone I know owns a mirror and a scale. There is no need for anyone to EVER tell anyone else they are gaining weight!

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  10. This was clearly an opportunity to give a classic "therapist" answer: So how does that make you feel?

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  11. Ha! I would have gone with C :)

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  12. But cheeseburgers and beer = HEAVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN.

    (Said the girl who's been depriving herself for a month now...)

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  13. HKW - Hahaha! Very topical! I like it!

    Marie - I don't think it's wrong, just kind of unhelpful in terms of achieving what I assume is your objective. (Also speaking from experience on that one.)

    cla517 - I dunno. If it's your husband and he brings it up...?

    refugee - You are absolutely right. I missed an opportunity on that one.

    Hillary - I am so glad to hear that! Honestly.

    LiLu - Well, yah. And you will have them again, my sweet.

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  14. Imagine telling someone you hadn't seen in a while and ran into on the street that they had put on weight!

    That's just mean!!!

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  15. God men are snarky arent they??
    We girls would just go home and quietly gloat they had put on weight and we hadnt and then at the next opportunity call a close girlfriend and say.."hey guess who I bumped into and man is she a lardarse now" lmao.
    PS I like my men with a bit of a tummy to snuggle up to these days. Beer gut definately not, but bit of a tummy yummy. :)

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  17. My ex told me I could stand to lose a little weight. So I did. About 160 pounds' worth.

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