Smoothie ingredients: Spinach, apple, strawberries, mango chunks, grapes, flax seed, Naturade soy-free protein powder
You blend all the stuff, drink a third, put the rest in the fridge for later and there's your day and Bob's your uncle.
Mood: not as crabby as expected
Smug points: none so far
My old friend Alice had this little kid cousin who would stand on the edge of the pool, hands and arms pointed straight down to dive in. For the longest time he would stand there saying, "I don't want to I don't want to I don't want to." And then he would dive.
So last night we were both all, ooh, we're excited to start this cleanse tomorrow!
And then this morning I woke up all I don't want to I don't want to I don't want to. I mean, obviously it's optional. And Nick is trying to lose weight and change how he eats and his relationship to food. I support all these things and agreed to do this with him.
So I made Nick's smoothie, gave him his glass, put the rest in a Nalgene bottle for him to take to work. And then I turned around and made mine.
In his cold bag I also packed potential snacks: carrots, cucumbers, broccoli, peanut butter (unsalted, organic, crunchy), almonds (raw), pumpkin seeds (raw), and boiled eggs.
Nick drank his glass and then was all, "Is that all? It's not very much."
I resisted the temptation to say, "Listen, asshole, this was your idea. You were all gung-ho, so I found a cleanse, I bought the book, I sort-of read the book, I bought all the stuff, I made your smoothie!"
Instead I said, "I followed the instructions. That seems to be it. Oh, and drink your detox tea. It's kind of gross."
But I did snap when he was all, "Do we take vitamins? When can I start eating my snacks?"
Now, the truth is that those three big handfuls of spinach blend down very small. Even when you add an apple and two cups of frozen fruit and a handful of grapes and some flax seeds and protein powder.
You wind up with an amount that is kind of like, hmm. Is that all? I ate a spoon of peanut butter not long after. I'm not trying to lose weight. I'm just trying to cleanse and shit. Oh, this reminds me. I have so much to say on this topic. Perhaps tomorrow.
When Nick called, I was no longer so hangry, plus I'd had a cup of plain black tea with ginger chunks. I am easing into the no-caffeine. I have children. I cannot be completely evil.
So after I said that I had resisted saying all those this-was-your-idea things to him, we talked about how maybe this isn't going to be a joy but ultimately, we agree it's good. You can do anything for 10 days, as my friend Dana pointed out.
Plus, we're going to be able to assign ourselves so many smug points as we go along.
It sounds like Nick is doing this for all of the right reasons and that you need to be supportive of him. You are a great wife.ReplyDelete
I think Nick is terrific and I like being supportive of him. And I think a break from wheat, dairy, sugar, caffeine, and meat is positive. (But I also really want a cup of strong tea with milk and sugar right now.)Delete
If Scott and I did this together we'd also need to track divorce points. Good luck!ReplyDelete
Divorce points! You are more clever than I. I may need to add those in, because I can envision being kind of hateful.Delete
You could never be completely evil! "I have children. I can't be completely evil"....that made me laugh. It's easier said than done but maybe you could change the tone of "That's it" (that's all I get?) to a Spartan..."That's it!" (That's all I need. For these 10 days). Good luck! So sweet yall are partners in good health. LOVE the metrics.ReplyDelete
Heather! I can be truly evil. Seriously. And actually, I think it's just a matter of getting used to it. Today is better than yesterday. And I know you love metrics! :)Delete